Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Missing Alan




Sunday we took a drive to Cascade Springs. It was the only day we could spend time together and I was soooo grateful it was the day it decided to rain and rain and rain. ;) We had umbrellas and coats and I was still cold! I guess I may need a maternity winter coat. Blah. Life costs so much. :)
I had a mission reunion 2 weekends ago. I was sad I couldn't go. It was in Salt Lake at 7 p.m. and Christian goes to bed at 7:30 p.m. Our ward had an ice cream social that night so no one was home from the ward to watch him. So, I went and got some free ice cream with Christian. It makes me sad that Alan works 6-10 p.m. every week night. I miss being able to go places with him in the evenings! Well, I guess I just miss him. We see him for 30 min to an hour weekdays and a few hours on Sundays (outside of church). If his schedule is light we may see him a little more but not much. I miss my husband. ;)
Every Tuesday night 4 or 5 of my girl friends and I get together and watch a movie. We bring however many movies we want to choose from and select one that night (well, usually). We're watching "The Others" tonight. We're going to watch scary movies all this month. Ooooooh! :) It's amazing that movie night has made me so happy! I didn't realize how much I missed girlie time until we started it. Now us girls are addicted to eachother. HA! Two Saturdays ago we got together and watched women's conference and ate a potluck brunch and talked about all the crazy girl stuff anyone could imagine. Then last Saturday we got together while our husbands were at the priesthood session and ate snacks and gave ourself facials and manicures and pedicures and watched "Pride and Prejudice". I love the girls! We have so much fun together and I look forward to seeing them each Tuesday night. We usually have movie night at my place b/c Alan's gone and they want me to be able to be there...Plus we have a 40" hdtv and niceish sound and they love my honey popcorn. HA! We have a blast.
I put Christian in his "big boy bed" for the first time last night. He was kicking and pushing on the sides of the crib and loosening the sides a bit. I decided it was time to put him in his toddler bed last night...Well, I found it at D.I. (second hand store). It was a crib that transforms into a toddler bed, but it's missing one of the crib sides. So, I turned it so the toddler "you can get out" side is against the wall and so he's basically in another crib. Just shorter and he can't loosen the sides. He's learning so much every day and mimics everything we do. It's so precious for the most part, though it can get on the nerves at times. :) He's finally 2 (as of Sept 8) and weighs 30 lbs and is 38" tall. He's got the Bascom tall genes going for him! :) We had a little party for him on his birthday. We invited some of his friends over and had cake and ice cream and opened presents and the kids played. It was simple yet the kids all had fun. (see pics)
We are happy and healthy. Miles is kicking away inside of me and I'm so excited to meet him! :) (see my big, pregnant belly...HA!) We always talk to Christian about Miles, his baby brother and he seems to understand. I'm nervous to take care of 2, but with the Lord anything is possible, right? :)

7 comments:

A Beautiful Life said...

YEA!! comment time!! So sorry you're missing your hubby! I know how you feel, Teddy would be gone for 30 day stretches in the military and it was hard and lonely! I think he's leaving in November for 10 days, I've been spoiled and he hasn't gone anywhere in over a year..your little guys is the cutest..i was just joking saying I wouldn't see you til he was 2 yrs old and NOW look!! embarrassing, we need to meet halfway soon..BEFORE he turns 3!! lol..

Charlynn said...

Hooray for comments! I totally need girl time, too. I need to convince Michael to have some guy time so I can do something like your movie night. I'm so sorry that Alan is gone so much. :(

Anonymous said...

So are you still missing him? I actually am posting and I didn't know what else to say :-).

The Gomes Family said...

Hey Tamara, sorry that you are missing your man, that would be horrible. Keep your chin up. Things will get better.

The Gomes Family said...

Sorry you miss your man, it will get better!

blogschmog said...

You seriously missed your mission reunion cause Christian has a bedtime? You are a dork. :)

Tamara Lyn said...

Yes, Bennifer. But we'd already had a mission get together-with the president and has family and everyone-a couple months before so I wasn't missing out on much. Plus I would've gone alone and didn't feel like keeping Christian from acting out in the middle of the President's spiritual message. It's all good.